An advice given and taken into heart

A fren told me sth dat is so right:
'The reason why you are being so worried is because you know what would come,
and you do not wish to see her in the condition that you've once gone through.
But at the same time,protecting her isn't helping her at all.
You have to let her fall and learn her lesson the hard way if she is not appreciating what you've done to her.
You learnt your lesson when you fell down,why don't you ask the question to yourself,
was there anyone to protect you when you were about to fall?
The answer is NO, and that is why you've become what you are now.
So,let her find her way herself. She'll get it someday.'

tis fren was being so straightforward(not to say she is rude,coz dat's her character)...
but it is very true..

yet, i have my weaknesses..
i cant bear to see the sadness in her face again..
i cant bear to leave my fren alone..

y m i alwiz tied up wiv other ppl's issues?


it did took me sometime to learn to do things d way how d advice was 'shown'..
so from now on..
im goin to try my best to let it be..
She have to learn..
maybe not in my way,
but in her way..

Thanks dear,
for listening to my craps,
for helping me to de-stress,
for standing by my side at some point,(in my opinion,u did)
AND...
for helping me tru tis huge mess!!


and for another fren,
Take Care!
i think i've sort of ended my journey wiv u for now..
Be happy in your life!
i wish u best of luck!


p/s: if u happen to knw who m i writing to,pls keep dat to urself or ask me personally,
i would like to keep both mine n their privacy protected..Thanks! ^_^